If you don’t ask, you don’t get. Have you ever heard this before? Asking for help when you need it takes some courage. When you ask for help from Wesley Financial, Chuck McDowell and our team will do everything they can to help you out of your timeshare fraud problems. The first step is asking for help. If you don’t ask for help, it lessens your chances of getting any. In an article by Dennis Merritt Jones, he describes what many go through when struggling to ask, and how if you don’t ask, you don’t get.
If You Don’t Ask, You Don’t Get
Merritt Jones begins the article with a quote by Nora Roberts. He starts, “If you don’t go after what you want, you’ll never have it. If you don’t ask, the answer’s always no. If you don’t step forward, you’re always in the same place.” — Nora Roberts. I love the aforementioned quote by Nora Roberts because it makes it clear that we have a role to play in creating the life we desire, which includes an action some of us tend to avoid — stepping out there and asking for what we want.
The Type of “Ask”
The type of “asking” to which I am referring, can’t come from a sense of fear, entitlement, arrogance, pushiness, lack, need or greed. In other words, it does not come from a belief that others can, should or will fill our empty bucket — because we know that is our job — not theirs. It comes from just the opposite mindset.
The type of “asking” I am talking about comes from a deep sense of certitude based in a bold self-confidence and gently wrapped in sincere humbleness, rather than a take-no-prisoners mentality. At the same time, however, this kind of asking never ends with a question mark — which implies uncertainty or doubt, but rather with an exclamation point, which denotes a certainty that acceptance of the request is already granted even before it is asked. Suffice it to say, the intention, attitude, and belief behind the action of asking are of vital importance. (Merritt Jones, 2013). With help from Wesley Financial, Chuck McDowell and our team will do their utmost to get you your desired results when it comes to timeshare fraud. Come to us for help with your timeshare fraud woes. The first step is reaching out to us for help. If you don’t ask us, then we won’t know that you need help.
Man’s Best Friend is a Great Example
Merritt Jones uses an example that many people can relate to. He uses his pet as an example. His canine pal enlightened him on the importance of asking for what you want, and not backing down. Merrit Jones states, “As usual, my resident teacher ‘Master MacDoodle, the Mighty Mystical Super Poodle,’ appeared right on cue this week, demonstrating how this action looks in real time. Yesterday afternoon, Diane and I were sitting in the back yard enjoying a cold drink, when out of the blue Mac appeared, pushed his way (all 80 pounds of him) between us and dropped a wet, slimy, well-chewed tennis ball directly in my lap. I gently took the ball and set it down on the ground and continued my conversation with Diane. As quickly as I put the ball down, he picked it up, this time dropping it in Diane’s lap.
This ritual went on for about five minutes, at which time I finally succumbed to his passionate mission to dominate the moment and went to play fetch with him. The message was clear — he was asking for what he wanted, and he wasn’t the least bit shy about making his request known. There was no question mark at the end of his request — it was a definite exclamation point!” (Merritt Jones, 2013). Here, we see a simple and relatable example of not giving up. His dog wouldn’t stop asking. In a similar vein, if you’ve been duped by a timeshare company, ask for help. Reach out to us at Wesley Financial. Chuck McDowell and our team can help you cancel your timeshare contract if you are the victim of timeshare fraud.
Persistence & Asking For Help
Merritt Jones continues, “While Mac has been doing this with his tennis balls, tug-a-rope, and other toys for several years now, the lesson I received wasn’t just about him getting what he wanted — it was a lesson for all of us. There is no area of our life where the, ‘if you don’t ask, you don’t get’ principle does not apply — and it’s not always about asking for ‘things.’ As an example, perhaps it’s about asking that special person out for the first time… or asking for that long overdue promotion at work. Perhaps it’s about asking the person you are speaking with on the phone to slow down or speak louder so you can actually hear and understand what they are saying.
The list of where we can apply the “if you don’t ask, you don’t get” principle could go on forever…A willingness to ask is crucial. Regardless of what area in our lives we are talking about, as a rule of thumb, if we don’t ask, we don’t get.
If we take an honest look at our lives, we’ll see the wisdom and truth of this.” (Merritt Jones, 2013). At Wesley Financial, Chuck McDowell and our team understand that you have been a through a lot as a victim of timeshare fraud. It can be hard to ask for help from your timeshare woes. Yet it is very important to seek the help you need rather than waiting for it to come to you. At Wesley Financial, Chuck McDowell and our team want you to let us do the hard work for you and cancel your timeshare contract for good.
Don’t Hesitate to Ask for Help With Timeshare Fraud From Wesley Financial: Chuck McDowell and Our Team Can Help You
Merritt Jones emphasizes, “For many of us, asking others for what we want scares the wits out of us, because it forces us out of the box of our comfort zone (that imaginary place where we have some illusionary semblance of being in control), and into the realm of uncertainty — where we are absolutely out of control and thus, subject to the possibility of rejection. Let’s face it, nobody likes to be told ‘no.’ As a result, and because the fear of rejection is so strong, there is a tendency for some of us is to sit back, lay low, stay quiet and thus, stay stuck in the box.
The key is to remember if we don’t ask, the answer will always be an automatic no.” (Merritt Jones, 2013). Here, we can see the exceedingly helpful encouragement that Merritt Jones provides. If you don’t ask, you don’t get. It is unlikely that you will receive the help you need if you don’t ask for help. Contact us at Wesley Financial. Chuck McDowell and our team can get you on the right track to ending your timeshare problems.
Merritt Jones, Dennis. (July 22,2013). If You Don’t Ask, You Don’t Get. www.huffpost.com, https://www.huffpost.com/entry/squeaky-wheel-gets-the-grease_b_3628600